Hey guys, here is a tip on how I always solve issues among people.
When I am asked to discuss on any issue among two or more individual so, I can advise or come up with a solution to end the fight or when, it comes to making a decision after an employees meeting on how to proceed with something that brought a rift among workers on how to go about something that is not well accepted mostly because, it is new policy/practice or simply because it not well understood ...
First, I let every one have a chance to express themselves as much until, I think I have had enough information from all the parties involved then, I start by asking whoever is willing to volunteer and say what they thing could be done to solve the problem.
I then ask others to debate on whether that sounds like a good idea. If not why? If yes why? Soon after the whole group will be exchanging ideas and opinions while I am taking notes and processing in my head taking in consideration the emotions involved while assessing all the moves, eye contacts… and trying to figure out any hidden agendas from all sides if any.
Then I start repeating some of the important things I noted down just to make sure every one has the same recollection of events by asking questions such as:
Is it true that, did you say that, do you all agree that, do you understand that… and carefully listening to the answers and taking notes of any clues these may provide with the aim, to have every one come clear on how we are drawing close to our conclusion and where they may have come from in the process.
Thereafter, I will use the arguments and comments from the discussions in presenting my opinion as clear and as transparent as possible. After I will invite any one with a better idea that could be interesting and achievable to all to say something after a few minute as I am now acting as a moderator to bring all interventions to harmonize with what need to be done in going forth I normally always end up with a compromise with 70mto 90 % success rate or even 100% This has made many wonder weather I am a layer or a social worker or a psychic… But what maters most is that, it almost success each and every time.
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Hope this helps any one with the dilemma of solving issue at work, at home with family or friends.
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